A Time for Prayers and Reflection March 2, 2012
Posted by tintinten in finding balance, my kid Tinik.Tags: family bonding, gifts, Justin Nicholas (a.k.a. Tinik), Lent, prayer, Purpose Driven Life, Stormie Omartian
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I’m in a period of praying a little more than I usually do these days. Like a personal devotion or ritual, I like to concentrate on something for a period of time. In a way, it’s like a retreat for me, only done in small installments.
For the month of February, I reread The Power of a Praying Woman. I read it first around January 2008. I like the way the book is organized. It has a total of 30 chapters, each devoted to a specific area in your life to be covered with prayer. Every chapter begins with a discussion on the need to pray for that area in your life interspersed with Bible verses and anecdotes or examples from the author’s life or that of a friend’s. Then, it is followed by a prayer and, finally, more related Bible verses to remember. When I come across words I’d like to remember, I use my planner to take notes.
I also started rereading The Purpose Driven Life on Ash Wednesday with a plan to culminate the 40-day journey on Palm Sunday. I read it first 40 days prior to my birthday in 2008. I used a notebook to jot down the Points to Ponder, Verse to Remember, Question to Consider, and my corresponding answer. This time, though, I’m making efforts to take note of important messages from the author as well. When I’m done, I plan to go through my first notebook to see how I have changed and grown.
March is the month I dedicate to praying for Justin through the guidance of The Power of a Praying Parent. March is Justin’s birth month and I would like to do this as my gift to him—cover every detail in his life with prayer. Again, I use my planner from my brother-in-law, Rizzi, for note-taking.
The month of April I will dedicate to Nicki by rereading The Power of a Praying Wife. By the time I finish these three prayer books by Stormie Omartian, I will have all notes in my planner to remind me throughout the year about areas that need prayers the most.
Here is a sample prayer from Chapter 2 of The Power of a Praying Parent, which is a good prayer to start with as an intercessor. As Stormie said, none of us are perfect parents. But a praying parent is something we all can be and this is how we make a difference in our children’s lives.
Lord,
I come to You in Jesus’ name and give (name of child) to You. I’m convinced that You alone know what is best for him. You alone know what he needs. I release him to You to care for and protect, and I commit myself to pray for everything concerning him that I can think of or that You put upon my heart. Teach me how to pray and guide me in what to pray about. Help me not to impose my own will when I’m praying for him, but rather enable me to pray that Your will be done in his life.
Thank You that I can partner with You in raising him and that I don’t have to do it alone. I’m grateful that I don’t have to rely on the world’s unreliable and ever-changing methods for child rearing, but that I can have clear directions from Your Word and wisdom as I pray to You for answers.
Thank You, Lord, for the precious gift of this child. Because Your Word says that every good gift comes from You, I know that You have given him to me to care for and raise. Help me to do that. Show me places where I continue to hang on to him and enable me to release him to Your protection, guidance, and counsel. Help me not to live in fear of possible dangers, but in the joy and peace of knowing that You are in control. I rely on You for everything, and this day I trust my child to You and release him into Your hands.
Another Milestone Reached! 70% Done. March 1, 2012
Posted by tintinten in pregnancy countdown.Tags: childbirth, fetal development, pregnancy, pregnancy countdown, third trimester
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Day number: 196
Weeks left: 12
70% of the way there
Baby’s age: 182 days or 26 weeks
Your baby weighs approximately 2.4 pounds and is about 10 inches from crown to rump, or a little under 16 inches from head to toe. He or she has been gaining weight steadily during the past 27 weeks as its stem cells develop into organs, blood and immune systems, and bones. However, from this point forward, your baby’s weight gain will be due to increasing amounts of body fat. A quick way to predict your baby’s birth weight is to average your partner’s and your birth weights. -Pregnancy Weekly
It’s my 28th week and the start of my third trimester. In fact, I can give birth as early as 8 weeks from now. Suddenly, I’m starting to wonder how crazy I was to think about going through the pains of labor again. I remember my first time as if it was yesterday. It was exactly five years ago, 1 March 2007, and I gave birth to Justin the following day at past 4 in the morning.
I tried to do it without anaesthesia. But just when my cervix reached 9 cm dilation, I asked the doctors to relieve me of the pain at last. I was trembling so much at every contraction that I could not do the proper breathing I learned from Rome Kanapi’s childbirth preparation class. As hard as I squeeze Nicki’s hands in mine whenever the pain peaks, I could feel my strength slowly draining. Plus, my blood pressure was shooting up.
I don’t plan to try that feat again. I will ask for medication as soon as the pain becomes unbearable.
Having children must be really worth more than all that pain or women are all crazy. I love to gaze at Justin whenever he is sleeping. Always, I feel contented and thankful for him. I love everything about him and there is nothing else I could wish for. I never knew such feeling is possible until he came into my life. I assume most mothers feel the same, thus, the decision to have more children.
Eight to twelve weeks. It won’t be too long now. Only eight to twelve weeks and I will pop. I’m crazy. I’m excited. I’m ready.
Dolphin <3 Turtle March 1, 2012
Posted by tintinten in thankful thursday.Tags: coconut shell pendants, friendship, gifts, maternity dress, Starbucks tumbler
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My best friend Laila and I met for dinner last night after not having seen each other for quite a while (i.e. since Breaking Dawn Part 1). We were supposed to give each other our gifts for Christmas and other occasions. But since my husband is frequently around her office these days, she sent her gifts to me, Nicki, and her godson ahead last week. Thus, while I left Justin’s gift for him to open when he comes, Nicki and I got to wear ours on casual Friday.
Since Laila recently came back from Hong Kong, she got this Starbucks Tumbler for me, too, to add to my growing collection. I love the way its color matches my iPad’s case, given by my sister. Pity though that I have only a few days to use them together in the office and carry them along to meetings.
Laila plays the role of a BFF perfectly. She takes mental notes of the things I love and need so her gifts always end up being cherished and used often. I try to do the same. Here’s one of those items I gave her last night. I came across these coconut shell pendants several months ago and got them for us (dolphin for me + turtle for her = our favorite animals). But I misplaced them and found them only some weeks ago.
Thanks, bru, for the gift of friendship! I love you! *BSH*







